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| So, to start off, a few weeks ago I was invited to visit my SO's family for the rest of the summer until school started. Well my mom thought we said we would be here only six weeks. Well, it wasn't that way. We had wanted to stay here until school started, that and the weekend my mom had "expected" us to be back was the weekend he had drill and we had to take his niece back to her mom's. So driving everywhere and then back home wasn't going to happen.
ould know guess I made the mistake in tell
Before I told anything to my mom I had a few things to think about, and those few things had to do with school. I decided to switch schools, and I needed some advice to help me make my decision, and before I was going to talk to my mom about I wanted to have all the facts and pros and cons so she wouldn't jump down my throat for not thinking. So I had asked my SO's mom if we could talk. Well we did and I found that all in all going to a different school than intended was going to be better for me in the long run.
Now that I had all my facts and pros and cons down I was ready to talk to my mom, now you should know how hard she is to talk to -VERY- she doesn't give anyone the chance to talk. If it's not her way, it's the wrong and stupidest way you could go. She always been like that and she always will. Anyway, I was ready to talk to her, but I guess I made the mistake in telling her that I got some help from my SO's mom. She freaked. She put on facebook that I apparently hated my family because I didn't want to talk to them about important school decisions. Now, keep in mind the entire time I was talking to "the other mom" I was thinking about how going to the new school would help my mom (money wise) and how I could talk to her about it. Once again she never gave me the chance to say anything. She immediately jumped down my throat because I wasn't going to be home this weekend (7/16/10).
Well I sent her a message because I hung up on her (mistake on my part) about what I wanted to do. She started putting down my SO's family, when she doesn't even know what they look like, and then my SO, trying to convince me he was manipulating me (as if he could do that...). Anyway, she sent me a message on FB saying he was trying to do just that, and that she "didn't want this bad relationship with her daughter but [I] had chosen for her", and that I didn't care about my family and so on and so on. Well my SO got upset that she was down talking him and his family and left a message on her phone saying she didn't have the right to do that when she didn't even know them or what was going on. Since I was trying to tell her what I wanted to do and how I wanted to grow up, she stopped listening all together. She sent me a text pretty much saying to stop texting her and stop calling her and to "leave her and her family alone".
Now, I'm a big family person. I love my family, and to hear that, I was really hurt. She wouldn't even tell my younger brother and uncle that I loved them. I know she's probably taking the fact that I'm growing up and moving out hard, but...did she really have to take it that far? I understand she's a mom and "that's what moms do"....but do moms shun their daughters just because they got advice from another mom? I think that was a little melodramatic and hurtful.
What do you think about this? What would you do i you loved your mom, but she wanted nothing to do with you anymore? How am I supposed to take that?
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| Ok, so there's this guy (Ohhhh a guy!) and we've been talking and hanging out since April (I think?) of this year. We started kinda doing a friends with benefits thing and that was going ok and all and whatnot, but he started going to school full time AND working full time at nights. So, there's hardly any time at all I get to see him, and the few times I got to talk to him are now completely gone! And I think it's my fault! T.T You see last Thrusday I put this blog up on myspace about a bunch of stuff I was really pissed about, you know letting my hormons get the best of me, and ended up putting a few things up there about him that I probably shouldn't have. But I edited that part and all, so I felt better, but I didn't get to delete the comment one of my friends made about him before he read it...and that's when he stopped texting me. Now I don't know if it's just work and school (he gets out of school in like 5 weeks) and him being really tired, or if it's about my blog and him not even wanting to talk to me anymore...What should I do?!! I told him I was going to delete his number from my phone because he didn't seem to want to talk to me anymore, so why should I have a number in my phone that I'm not even going to use? Was that right? Help?!! | | |
| Ok, so my first blog...nothing much to blab about really...at least not until people start coming and going and leaving random comments behind. So...I'll stop right here and let that settle in...
Eventually I'll get to the rants and raves...but for now...I'll settle with the simple "HELLO!" deal until people get warmed up to me....
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